Resilient Peaceful Positive Survivor

Hi everyone! How’s everyone doing this morning? Me? It’s gloomy and grey outside, BUT I get to write to you lovely people this morning and help clarify a pretty good article, however not all the traits are included, and some of the traits listed in the link I provided, are inaccurate for ME personally speaking.

The link I’m providing is great btw…

The 32 Traits of an Empath

and I must mention, I may be a Super Empath, however keep in mind it keeps growing…so I apologize in advance if some of the traits cross the line to my other abilities, I’m still learning, and this is the first time I’m writing it down. Oh I forgot to tell you what other written label abilities I have: Clair-everything (Clair-sentience, etc.), telepathic, tele-cog, can read auras, some medium abilities, etc.

So how should I do this…In comparison to the article link I provided, the article written by Rebecca Fox, which is lovely by the way, we’ll delve into her traits listed and add to them.

1. Yeah I just know stuff, it’s beyond weird, lol. It feels surreal sometimes cuz it feels like I’m making up a story, but it’s TRUE. Well, beyond absorbing peoples’ emotions, I can also absorb physical ailments, metal illness, intentions, what they eat, what they drink, the mood in the air, tv, internet, pictures, emotions of the individual/their intent/etc. through their written word be it a text, a fb message, etc., and I’m sure much more- too much to add or remember right now- I didn’t even have coffee yet lol. But since I’m more than one psychic ability, there’s a lot of gray area that gets crossed over, so I may have an empath trait of feeling everything, but not sure if this is an empath trait, but reading pictures, and just knowing through sight or thinking of an individual can umbrella out to my Clair-everything abilities.

To Be Continued…COFFEE BREAK, I must run to Dunkin Donuts now. It would be SO MUCH BETTER to type this, with my cup of Joe by my side.

2.  That’s correct, I can tell if I’m being lied to…for example, let’s say my bff text me show me a picture of my crystals rocks in reality, but when I initially saw the text, I read the text as “show me a picture of your shoes”. In that situation, I was like what?! and found it really humorous. However, when I looked away and then back at the text, I saw the text she actually sent me. So I’m aware of my abilities and so is she, so I text her “Did you really want me to send you a pic of my shoes?”. She replied all frazzled, thinking she sent that text instead of what she meant to send me. I reassured her, so she validated the actual thought in her head was the initial text I saw from her, but wasn’t sent in actuality. I can also tell the real truth by thinking a thought, or saying a sentence. For example, I’ll write, ” I need my coffee to get my day started.” I finished it right? Then, I’ll write, ” I don’t need my ………………”. I can’t type it nor think it. Cool right? If I can’t think it, write it, or say it, it’s untrue.

Any questions feel free to ask…its November 11th, 2021 @ 5:14 am in NY where I reside…so I’m going back to bed, lololo.

Hi Y’all. Considering we’re going through a pandemic with the fear of the contagion of the Covid-19 Virus, how bout we make this a little more interactive. What has everyone been doing to keep busy? What topics would you be interested in for me to write about? or better yet Is there anything you would like to know about me? lol I’m so bored right now…anyways I hope you all are safe and well.

Be safe everyone

Love to you all,

Rosalia

Stress can catch up to us, can’t it? It’s so easy to be engulfed by it, one thing turns to another, to another, to another…soon it’s a humongous snow ball from a million snow flakes that joined to form it. All I can think of is to break the cycle, because it’s so easy to lose control of it so much that it becomes a bloody mess, a huge monster that gets bigger and bigger, sucking more negativity of my life into it’s mouth. So many time’s I just say I need to breathe and need a break from such a monstrosity. But don’t we all feel that sometimes? That’s why people go away? Whether they go on a cruise, a flight out of state, a road trip, a drink of alcohol, etc. But once one returns to reality, back from that vacation or that night out from drinking, they return to their problems. And they need another vacation, starting a repeated cycle of havoc.

Maybe the answer isn’t escaping from our problems temporarily. Maybe the answer is confronting our problems-so as it doesn’t leak into our daily lives, thus contaminating it and overwhelming us with more problems. I was so afraid of speaking up to people, that I accepted my unhappiness as normal. So much to the fact I let things slide for over a year, and it turned to a hairy ugly monster because I waited so long to speak up. Now that I’m speaking up, people who I didn’t want to disrupt, are pissed off. Maybe because they actually have to do their job now? lol.

The moral of the story is don’t self sacrifice yourself and your happiness. Because the people that matter in ur life will stick around, because what you have to say, they will oblige by to make you happy. And the people who don’t matter will make a big stink, because you speaking your truth for your happiness will make them unhappy. They truly don’t matter, because your happiness doesn’t matter to them at all. They won’t upkeep their actions to fulfill your happiness. They may have a temper tantrum from you speaking your truth. But keep steadfast, continue speaking your truth. Don’t let them win by causing you to doubt yourself, undervalue yourself. You’re worth it, I’m worth it. You’ll see. So will I. The trash will take itself out (of our lives because it does not serve us).

It’s still cold out, but at least it’s getting warmer out plus the upside of things is the sun is out. It’s always more pleasant in life when the sun is out. Did a bunch of stuff to check off on my check list…wrote a work email…returned curtains at Costco, made an appointment next week to do my taxes, paid my TJ Maxx bill…what else did I do? Oh I’m writing in my blog journal as we speak lol.

What are things in my life that I’m grateful for?

I said yesterday that I’m grateful for my grounding jewelry, God, and I forget what else…

Today, I’m grateful for my Guides (Angel, Fairies, and Demi-Gods) who always keep me company. When I misplace something, they always help me find something. Like when I go to a store, they help me look for something or tell me it’s not there…so I’m never really alone. It’s kind of like an imaginary friend, but they’re real in spirit, and more than one…I love them, God, and myself.

I’m also grateful for Bree Bree… she is my shadow and always keeps me company as well. When she’s not hungry, she’s always in a good mood, so when I’m home alone with her, I’m in a great mood too. I love her also. Crazy critter.

Well, enjoy this beautiful day. Besides being productive as you check off items to do in your check list (of life), make sure for every thing checked off, you do something nice to treat yourself to fulfill your soul. I’m not saying to go shopping- that’s a worldly materialistic check off list…that doesn’t relax my soul, it stresses me the Hell out lol…I’m talking about items such as these: journal, meditate, take a nice hot bath, eat something nutritious, get a massage, paint, meditate, etc.

Enjoy, ttyl.

I should feel very productive today, like I used to want to but… I’m not. Is something wrong with that. I got a lot done today, what everyone would want me to be on track of, but… I feel empty. I don’t feel I progressed how I want to today, in the spiritual realm that is. Doing so will make my soul happy. Writing to you all now makes me very happy.

I was too much in the rat race today. I felt very drained by the time I came home at almost 1 in the afternoon. But I did so much, materialistically.

I feel better, more on track now being home. Then again that’s when I feel like I’m more myself when I’m by myself. Of course I like being around others…BUT..things have changed now, I’m much more different now.

What am I grateful for today? Hmmm I exercised slightly, helps bring my vibration up. Strengthens my bones, tones my muscles- actually forms them lol, and I worked on my pooch (Stomach)today. Hopefully a little each day, I’ll feel more confident in regard to everything about me, my posture, my progress on my balance, and my soul. Then again, our body is just a shell, an outer layer to our soul.

I tried to be non-judgmental today. That’s my new daily thing to do. I remind myself each moment to be non-judgmental when I feel I’m venturing away from that goal. It’s not hard for me, almost like riding a bike and easier each moment.

LOL I can’t even ride a bike now. I guess I was absorbing other bike riders and my ex, so in a sense, they made me “great at it”. Now that I’m not around any bicycle riders, I fell twice already lol. Maybe again one day.

I absorbed a lot when I was younger, I didn’t even realize they weren’t my hobbies, but to those people I would hang out with. The empath life I tell ya. At least Cooking I can be grateful for as I know it’s my own hobby. Thank you Lord! Lol. Anyways, I have to feed Bree Bree and hop in the shower, I have dinner plans.

One more thing before I forget, a big Thank you to all the psychics who taught me how to shield myself to prevent the absorption of others-especially all their negativity. It’s 75% efficient. I still get exhaustingly tired but at least I get to go home and recoup. I also thank Cynthia Taylor Scott for teaching me to scrub with shower gel and sea salt to scrub away the negativity. I forget who taught me to wear grounding jewelry or smudge sage to gather others’ negativity in the smoke and open a window to release it all. Meditation and yoga definitely helped me in grounding me and giving me a peace of mind. Thank you. These are all life savers.

Well once again this is for my benefit to get my words down on paper and hopefully it will benefit you as well. What do I feel accomplished in for 2018? Hmmm…

One being I’m grateful that I still have my family present, as dysfunctional as they are…that’s family for ya, only connected by blood, but willing to bleed for you no matter what- in the best case scenarios.

Two- I’m grateful for those in my life that are my adopted family. They love me unconditionally and just get ‘IT’.

And for 1 and 2 being present so I can give and them receive vice versa. Isn’t it a great feeling? That’s #3.

Four- To be purposeful in all my actions as I do for others, nothing makes me happier than seeing a smile on their face.

My goals for this New Year? Of course I want to lose weight, continue to eat healthy, those are just known goals everyone wants to succeed at. Make lots of MONEY??? How bout somewhere in the middle where we can meet half way and agree on somethings?

I would just aspire to want to continue being purposeful in every action doing good for others AND LIVE IN THE PRESENT. I want to not be: materialistic,  forget mankind, be coldhearted, and only be out for myself. HOWEVER I DO WANT to be a reason someone thinks to themselves after I hold the door open for them, or let them go ahead of me in the lane in front of me, that there are still good people in the world.

My Reiki teacher text me today thanking me for the Christmas and New Years Card, thanking me for putting the TIME into writing her one, that people just don’t do that anymore. Her exact words. Everyone seems to be blinded in a rat race and I’m one of the few that wants to get off the track. Time with loved ones seem to be forgotten, a value lost in the shuffle as other cards that seem to be valued more, take it’s spot closer to the top of the deck and deemed more important.

Positivity sends positive ripples in a world that’s been so hardened. That’s my New Year Resolution.

and my goal to appreciate the present is to write a gratitude list every day if I can.

I know I said thank you already above, but this is just a continuation of that.

Thank you Danielle for picking up the floor lamp from my truck to the store so I can return it, being that I shouldn’t lift things over 10 lbs. anymore since it throws off my balance.

Thank you Neil for being in my life to make me laugh as I try to make everyone possible take my great food.

and

Thank you Bree Bree for screaming in my ear when your hungry and kneading me while purring when you’re full. I couldn’t ask for a better cat companion (literally) to spend life with.

Maybe that’s a good thing for me as I’m constantly thinking. LOL It’s bad if one wants to write though, WORD BLOCK!!!

It’s so nice in my room right now. I’m lounging in a comfy chair, almost like a furry bean bag, but it’s a cushion on a bowl with a base to it. I’m right next to my window, with the sun beaming through. Warm. Toasty. I hear the wind blowing outside and hear a wind chime in the distance. In my house, all I hear is SILENCE. I have my hot camomile tea in my mug on the floor within reach. It’s so nice, relaxing, and peaceful here.

I had to take a couple of Tylenol before to get rid of my headache. Maybe that’s why I can’t think right now. Does anyone else get this? Sometimes before it pours, snows, a big storm, I feel sick. I get a pounding headache. If I don’t take Tylenol, it gets worse. I get very nauseous, vomit ALOT, and lay in bed (feel too sick to get up) All of these symptoms I experienced when I had the strokes way back when in February 27th, 2014.

My Neurosurgeon (who’s retiring this year) told me either I’m dehydrated or it’s the weather. Since I have a shunt in my head to drain the blood gathered in my brain to my stomach, the Neuro-surgeon says I have to drink about a gallon of water a day. That’s 128 ounces I believe, correct me if I’m wrong. Also before a storm, he says my brain swells. I looked it up, I’m a “human barometer”. I know if I get sick, it’s really going to rain or snow. I don’t get sick every-time luckily. He says to avoid getting sick, it will help if I am well hydrated, have a full stomach, and take two tylenols. Two tylenols are key for me. When I start to feel sick, I have a slight headache initially and quite fatigued. I don’t feel like my usually self, where I’m very motivated to keep busy. I just want to surprisingly take it down few notches and take it easy.

Does this happen to any of you? It would be nice to know I’m not alone. No one I know gets this. Well, hope everyone had a great day. It’s suppose to snow this Monday thru Tuesday or Wednesday. Everyone be safe if you’re in New York or in another state expecting snow. Oh and if you’re anything similar to me and get sick now with storms after the strokes, believe me, Tylenol is a life saver for me, which I highly recommend. Be well.

 

Contact Melissa Firmes-Ray

Tel: (631)608-3135

Cell Phone: (631)522-5517

Email: Melissa.firmes@kidsneedmore.org

 

KiDS NEED M♥RE MOBILE REVEALED

KiDS NEED M♥RE Brings Camp Fun with the M♥RE Mobile to Children too Sick From Having Cancer or A Life-Threatening Illness

(Above) Picture of the M♥RE Mobile RV Revealed dated January 26^th,2018 in Baldwin, at the White Winter Gala Fundraiser. The White Winter Gala is held annually by Mitch Kraeling. His son, Mitchell Kraeling, passed away from Cancer in 2013. Mitch and his daughter Kim, are both very active participants in giving back to children effected by the deadly disease, especially doing what they can for KiDS NEED M♥RE. They want to make a difference for the children effected presently, giving them hope of a chance to live, and a chance to enjoy their childhood in making fond memories.

The White Winter Gala is M♥RE than a fundraiser. It’s people getting together under one roof for a common cause: to fight against a all too common disease as Cancer who doesn’t discriminate when choosing it’s victim. While they raise money for such a purposeful organization, they have fun partying, dancing, and eating with new and old friends.

The Executive Director at KiDS NEED M♥RE, Melissa Firmes-Ray stated January 25^th, 2018:

“Last night I had a spiritual experience. The artists working on our RV revealed the newly wrapped M♥RE MoBiLE to me. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. I had to turn my head and look away because it was so beautiful. I can’t wait to show it to you!! It’s beyond anything I’ve imagined.

That’s exactly how I feel about our KiDS NEED M♥RE family. Five years ago, when I took a leap of faith and founded this organization with Cassandra, John, and Dave, I knew it would be great, I knew it would be beautiful, but it’s transcended beyond what I could dream of alone. It’s our many visions and efforts working together that create our camp family. You all take my breath away with the magic you create every day for each other. “

 

KiDS NEED M♥RE believes that fun heals. KiDS NEED M♥RE is a 501(c)(3) non-profit charitable organization dedicated to enhancing the lives of children, families, and young adults coping with cancer and a life-threatening illness.

They are a community built around retreats, events, and camping experiences for children and families coping with cancer and a life-threatening illness. They provide a supportive network of volunteers that visit kids in the hospital and at home. Their one week sleep away camp, KiDS NEED MORE Camp Adventure, is for children coping with cancer. They use a facility that is handicap accessible to accommodate campers with special needs. Their programs and services are provided free to the families. KiDS NEED MoRE are 100% volunteer run. Their leadership team and staff have been directly affected by cancer or a life-threatening illness.

 

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If you’d like more information about KiDS NEED M♥RE, how to become involved, or to schedule an interview with Melissa Firmes-Ray, she can be contacted via cell phone: (631) 522-5517 or email: Melissa.firmes@kidsneedmore.org

 

 

 

Life can be a little hectic, add my life to the mix, two strokes on top, a lot of psychic abilities…all Hell breaks loose…

Oh Vey, here we go again.

I was born an empath. Just was in denial, thought I was cursed, so on and so forth. I was just UNGROUNDED I’ve come to find out. Went to two PSYCHICS (is that ironic? lol) and they said my “bf” (at the time-ick!!!, now my EX-thank God) was toxic like my father, and one psychic said before the strokes, he said, picture a volume knob, my psychic abilities were on the lowest volume…NOW two strokes later, they’re on the highest volume. Cowabunga!!! That threw me a loop (Putting it lightly).

Fast Forward to the present moment…catching my breath…life is ok, it could be better, but I’m still alive. I could’ve died three times. The first stroke (1st time)…the second stroke (2nd time)…Craniotomy (3rd Time)…Emergency Surgery.

Before the strokes, I got 1 psychic feeling every 3-5 months. Now I get psychic abilities like I’m breathing in oxygen. It was overwhelming initially cuz I get so many “feelings”, but now I’m managing it and “I’m right on top of it Rose” (that’s from a movie, “The babysitter’s dead- comedy/drama). I’m 3 things now, an empath, clair-sentient, and telepathist.

I’m tired now. Did you know that’s common for an empath? I’m constantly absorbing other peoples’ emotions, physical ailments, and mental illness unless I’m by myself. When I’m by myself, I feel my own emotions, physical ailments, and mental illness. I didn’t have any mental illness up until now, but now I have Major Depressive Disorder with everything I’ve been going through. I’m a human sponge unfortunately and there’s NO OFF SWITCH.

Any questions are greatly appreciated, so I’ll answer you all when I can. I don’t go online that frequently either now cuz I absorb online too. It sucks but that’s the new reality of it all. Have a great day everybody.

Hi everyone. Wow, everything’s a blur to me right now. All I can remember is how cold I am RIGHT NOW. Halloween? Thanksgiving? Christmas? New Year’s? I literally just skipped over Christmas, and typed New Year’s instead.

Listen, I’m 38 years old. I don’t celebrate Halloween. I’m too old to dress up. Too old to go trick or treating. I don’t eat sugary candy. I’m vegan, so  don’t have milk chocolate or caramel. LOL

On to the next holiday. Thanksgiving? hmmm…I don’t eat any meat (that used to breathe) or anything that comes from it. Next holiday…Christmas~  too old for getting presents…New Year’s? same answer, TOO OLD.

Man, I feel TOO OLD now with saying it so much lol. Why do we need a holiday anyways to celebrate L-I-F-E? Once a year we celebrate our birthday, shouldn’t we be grateful to be alive every day? Not to be a kill joy, or better yet, to be a kill joy, in my opinion (since we’re all entitled to one) material gifts are over rated.

Life is a gift wouldn’t you say? We’re all racing against the clock. A song that a young girl wrote, mentioned how the clock is ticking, and the crocodile from Peter Pan is coming for you. Money can’t buy time. It can’t buy back our youth again.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4722308536782&id=1266653041

(Be sure to click the video to start hearing the sound)

That’s a new perspective I have now from what I went through having the two strokes where I almost died a couple of times. Life should be celebrated every single moment. It’s quality time with a loved one that is priceless. That’s what I want to enjoy. TIME with my loved ones, because we don’t get a second life with them.

This world that we live in right now is so advanced in technology. Everyone’s on their phone texting, on the internet, on the phone with someone. What about the person next to you? We’re so detached from human in-person contact because we’re so advanced in technology to connect with people through waves? Through phones? Through tablets? Through SOCIAL MEDIA?

I just want to SLOW DOWN. I would love for everyone to SLOW DOWN. Because before you know it, LIFE will be just another gone with the wind holiday, that’s come and past. What ever happened to actually writing a letter, a love letter, and mailing it or hand delivering it? What ever happened to having dinner with our family at all or dinner with them or a loved one WITHOUT a smart phone out, glued to their face? I’m positive usually but I just have to get this off my chest.

People WAKE UP before your life is almost over, and instead of being grateful of all our life accomplishments and what we’ve passed on down to our children or loved ones, INSTEAD, we have a whole bunch of REGRETS. Oh I wish I went out to eat with my father and he actually told me about his childhood growing up in Italy. Instead he wants to talk about MONEY, respect from having people fear him, and his possessions. How about lets keep it simple: what’s my favorite color? my favorite food? Cook with me. Sit down and talk to me.

I already have a whole bunch of regrets. Not because I haven’t tried, but because my loved ones refuse to try. And I’m done wasting my energy trying to convince them. What’s the saying? Pick Your Battles? I’m not a fighter, I’m a lover. And life is way too friggin’ short to waste time and energy on a Losing Battle. I’m gonna keep on walking and sit down and talk with a loved one that values time talking with me. Because in the end, we can’t make anyone happy but ourselves. It’s like a see saw, if everyone else is happy, we’re UNHAPPY. I prefer vice versa, because I don’t want to have anymore regrets. I choose to be grateful.

I love you all and value you all. Have a great day.